Ukuziphindiselela kuyitimu ephindaphindayo ezincwadini, ifilimu, nempilo yangempela. Umqondo wobulungiswa bomuntu siqu nokuziphindiselela uye wahlaba umxhwele abantu kuwo wonke amakhulu eminyaka, ukhuthaza izingcaphuno ezingenakubalwa ezinamandla nezinomthelela. Kulokhu kuhlanganiswa, siqoqe izingcaphuno ezingu-65 ezihamba phambili mayelana nokuziphindiselela, ezihlanganisa yonke into kusukela ebumnandini bokuphindisela okwenziwe kahle kuya ezingozini zokuziphindiselela. Lungiselela ukugqugquzeleka, ukucatshangelwa, futhi umangaliswe yile misho ehlaba umxhwele.
Isiphi isicaphuno esiyisithonjana esivela ku-V se-Vendetta?
Enye yezingcaphuno ezinhle kakhulu zefilimu ethi "V for Vendetta" ithi: "Khumbula, khumbula ulwesihlanu lukaNovemba“Lesi sisho siphindwa izikhathi eziningi kuyo yonke indaba, sibe yisiqubulo somlingiswa ongu-V. Usuku lwangomhla zi-5 kuNovemba lubalulekile ngoba luphawula imizamo ka-V yokuqhumisa iPhalamende lamaNgisi, emzamweni wakhe wokuziphindiselela kumbuso wobushiqela owawumcindezela.
Ubani ofuna ubulungisa ngamazwi okuziphindiselela?
Ezweni lapho ukuziphindiselela kubonakala kuyimpendulo yokungabi nabulungisa, kubalulekile ukucabanga ngalabo abafuna ubulungisa ngamazwi okuziphindiselela. Ngokuvamile, labo abafuna ukuziphindiselela bashukunyiswa isifiso esijulile ngisho nesikalo futhi benze labo abamonile bezwe ubuhlungu ababuzwayo. Nokho, amazwi okuphindisela awavamile ukuletha ubulungisa beqiniso; baqhubeza kuphela umjikelezo wobudlova nokucasuka.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ubulungisa beqiniso abuveli ekuphindiseleni, kodwa kusukela ekufuneni izixazululo ezinokuthula nezakhayo. Labo abafuna ubulungisa ngamazwi okuziphindiselela ngokuvamile bagcina belahlekile olwandle olunomunyu nenzondo, bengakwazi ukubona ngale kobuhlungu nentukuthelo yabo.
Esikhundleni sokufuna ukuziphindiselela, kubalulekile ukufuna izindlela ezinempilo zokubhekana nokungabi nabulungisa nokuhlupheka. Ubulungisa beqiniso buvela ekuhawukeleni, ekuthetheleleni nasekufuneni ukubuyisana. Labo abafuna ubulungisa ngamazwi okuziphindiselela baqhubekisela phambili umjikelezo wobudlova nobuhlungu, kuyilapho labo abafuna izixazululo ezinokuthula nezakhayo basiza ukuletha ukuphulukiswa kweqiniso noguquko.
Izingcaphuno ezingama-65 zokuziphindiselela ezihamba phambili
Imishwana yokuziphindiselela yinto efana nesiginesha okuvalwa ngayo isijeziso. noma, kunoma yikuphi, ukuveza isifiso sokunxephezela umonakalo othile owenziwe. Ngezinye izikhathi, zingaba isici esimangalisayo esisetshenziswa emisebenzini yobuciko; ngezinye izikhathi, imishwana esetshenziswa ezimweni zangempela futhi iqondiswe kubantu bangempela. Kodwa-ke, kungenzeka futhi ukugxeka lo mqondo, ukuvikela izinhlobo zobudlelwane ezingahlangene nenzondo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuziphindiselela ngokuqinisekile kungenye yemibono emidala futhi esetshenziswa kabanzi emlandweni, ikakhulukazi njengethuluzi lenkulumo-ze. Njengomuzwa, inencazelo nencazelo eyinkimbinkimbi. Ukuziphindiselela kuthathwa njengesenzo esilimazayo kumuntu owenze okubi kumuntu oyedwa noma ngaphezulu wangaphambili futhi okuvame ukuhlanganisa ubuhlungu okungenani obulingana nobomgebengu okukhulunywa ngabo obazwise izisulu.
Ezikhathini zasendulo, impindiselo yayisetshenziswa ukuze kukhishwe ubulungisa futhi kukhishwe izijeziso eziyisibonelo. Kwakuyindlela yokulinganisa imizwelo phakathi komhlukumezi nesisulu. Emphakathini waseMedithera, kwakuvame kakhulu ukuthi imindeni enamandla ihlanganyele kulezi zinhlobo zemikhuba yokuxazulula izingxabano zomndeni noma zezomnotho.
- Ungase ube nentshisekelo kulokhu: "Imishwana engu-55 ehamba phambili mayelana nengqondo... nencazelo yayo"
Imishwana yokuziphindiselela eqotho kakhulu
Kuwo wonke umlando wesintu, izinkulungwane zezingcaphuno zokuziphindiselela ezikhumbulekayo ziye zavela Lapha, sikubonisa imishwana efaneleke kakhulu.
1. Ukuziphindiselela kanye nenhlekelele kuvame ukwenzeka ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ukuthethelela kuhlenga okwedlule (uJeanette Winterson)
Ukuziphindiselela akuhlali kumnandi.
2. Labo abavuma ukuziphindiselela futhi bathathe ubulungisa ezandleni zabo abavamile ukwazi ukuthi ulayini ukuphi (Richelle Mead)
Ubudlova bungaba umjikelezo oyingozi.
3. Akusizi ukwanelisa impindiselo ngokuphindisela; ngeke kwelaphe lutho (J.R.R. Tolkien)
Umbhali odumile naye uyawungabaza umqondo wokuziphindiselela.
4. Uma ugxile ekuphindiseleni, izilonda ebezingaphola zigcinwa zisha (Adeline Yen Mah)
Udinga ukwazi ukuthi kanjani ukulawula imizwelo ngezikhathi zenhlekelele .
5. Ukuziphindiselela kwami kusanda kuqala! Ngizosabalalisa amakhulu eminyaka, futhi isikhathi siseceleni kwami (Bram Stoker)
Umbhali nombhali wencwadi kaDracula uzwakalise imizwa yakhe yokuziphindiselela.
6. Ngikhetha ukungayiniki amandla imizwa yokuziphindiselela, inzondo, noma isifiso sokulawula (Imali ye-Rosanne)
Ukucabangisisa okuhle kokulimaza lolu hlobo lwesenzo.
7. Noma ubani ofisa ubulungiswa kufanele azi ukuthi okuwukuphela kobulungisa obusebenza ngempela yibo obungamele ukuziphindiselela (William Ospina)
Abukho ububi obuphulukiswa ukuziphindiselela.
8. Isifiso sokuziphindiselela umuzwa womuntu (Ángeles Goyanes)
Ngakho umlobi waseSpain wahlanganisa lokho okuyikho ukuziphindiselela.
9. Ukube babazi ukuthi izenzo zobudlova kumelwe zibuyiselwe ngendlela ethile kwezinye izimpilo, yeka ukuthi isifiso sokuziphindiselela besiyoba njalo! (Brian L. Weiss)
Okunye ukucabangela okuthakazelisayo kokuthi lo muzwa usho ukuthini.
10. Ngizokuzwisa ubuhlungu ngalokhu. Angazi kanjani okwamanje, kodwa nginike isikhathi. Uzokwazi ukuthi isikweletu sizokhokhwa. (George R.R. Martin)
Yile ndlela umlobi wezinganekwane waseMelika uGeorge R.R. Martin akuveza ngayo kwenye yezincwadi zakhe.
11. Iso ngeso, ingqikithi yakho konke ukuziphindiselela (John Katzenbach)
Yincazelo yakudala yokuziphindiselela.
12. Ungaba nobulungiswa noma uziphindiselele. Kodwa hhayi kokubili. (Devin Grayson)
UDevin Grayson akazange ahlanganise ubulungisa nokuziphindiselela , nakuba abanye abantu abaningi benza kanjalo.
13. Ngiyakuxwayisa, uma ungicasula, ngizoziphindiselela (JRR Tolkien)
Indlela ehlekisayo yokukhuluma ngesithukuthezi esetshenziswe umbhali we-The Lord of the Rings.
14. Chitha isikhathi esiningi ulinde umuntu ozobhekana nemiphumela yalokho akwenza kuye, bese evumela ukuthi amzwise ubuhlungu okwesibili (John Williams)
Isifiso sokwanelisa ukoma kokuziphindiselela singasiqeda.
15. Noma ngabe abantu bazama kangaki ukukugxeka, ukuziphindiselela okungcono kakhulu wukubabonisa ukuthi banephutha (Zayn Malik)
Indlela ehlakaniphile yokubhekana nokuziphindiselela ngaphandle kodlame.
16. Impindiselo engcono kakhulu ukungafani nesitha sakho (Marcus Aurelius)
Umbusi onobuqili wayehlale ebonakala ngokuhlakanipha kwakhe.
17. Ngaphambi kokuthatha uhambo lokuziphindiselela, yimba amathuna amabili (Confucius)
Umbhali waseShayina uyasijabulisa ngale ndlela yokubhekisela esimweni sokuzilimaza salabo ababheja yonke into ngokuphindiselela.
18. Ukuziphindiselela ngokungaphelele kuwukumema inhlekelele; enye yezinto ezimbili, uyazonda noma ubeka inzondo yakho (uPierre Corneille)
Umbhali wemidlalo yeshashalazi ongumFulentshi wayedume ngemisebenzi yamaqhawe ayibhala ngekhulu le-17, eyayivame ukuqukatha imithamo yokuziphindiselela.
19. Impindiselo imnandi ayikukhuluphali (Alfred Hitchcock)
Kwabaningi, lena incazelo enemba kakhulu.
20. Namuhla asikwazi ukunqotshwa imicabango yodlame nokuziphindiselela, kodwa emicabangweni yesihe nobubele (Marianne Williamson)
Isishoshovu samaNgisi besilokhu singumlweli wokuthula nokuthethelela, futhi lesi sicaphuno esiphathelene nokuziphindiselela kanye nokumelana kwaso nesihawu siwubufakazi balokho.
21. Ukuthukuthela kuwukuziphindiselela ngenxa yamaphutha abanye (Alexander Pope)
Ukuthukuthela kwabanye uzithukuthelele.
22. Ukuziphindiselela ucezu olumnandi kunawo wonke okunambitheka okungakaze kuphekwe esihogweni (Walter Scott)
Ngokusho kuka-Alfred Hitchcock, uSir Walter Scott wayecabanga okufanayo.
23. Uma besithuka, akufanele yini siziphindiselele? (UWilliam Shakespeare)
UShakespeare wabona umuzwa wemvelo nowomuntu eziphindiselela.
24. Angikhulumi ngokuphindiselela noma ukuthethelela, ukukhohlwa ukuphela kwempindiselo kanye nokuthethelela kuphela (Jorge Luis Borges)
Ukukhohlwa umuthi ongcono kakhulu wokubulala ukuziphindiselela.
25. Phezu kwakhe ngiyothulula wonke amademoni obumnyama bangaphandle, futhi bayomangala futhi baqaphele ukuthi okukhethekile komuntu kuwukuziphindiselela (Patrick Rothfuss)
Abanye ababhali abanokungabaza okwengeziwe ngesimo somuntu bazwakalise umbono wabo.
26. Umehluko phakathi kwesijeziso nokuziphindiselela intukuthelo (uPenelope Parker)
Intukuthelo iyisici esikhuthaza ukuziphindiselela.
27. Ukuyeka ukucasuka, intukuthelo, udlame kanye nokuziphindiselela kuyizimo ezidingekayo ukuze siphile ngenjabulo (uPapa Francis)
Ukuphindisela akusoze kwasilethela injabulo, ngokwale nkomba yobuKristu bamaKatolika.
28. Akulona udlame oluqeda inzondo, noma ukuziphindiselela okususa amanxeba (Charlotte Bronte)
UCharlotte Bronte akazange abone okuhle kunoma yini eyayisho ukuziphindiselela.
29. Uma nithatha uhambo lokuziphindiselela, qalani ngokumba amathuna amabili: elezitha kanye nelakho (Jodi Picoult)
UPicoult nguyena ayekholelwa ekuziphindiseleleni.
30. Abantu ababuthakathaka bayaziphindiselela. Abantu abanamandla bayathethelela. Abantu abahlakaniphile baziba. (Albert Einstein)
Ukucabangisisa okukhulu okuvela kulososayensi omkhulu, osungulayo ukuqhathanisa okucacile phakathi kwezinhlobo ezahlukene zezimo zengqondo .
31. Ukuphindisela kufana netshe eliginqikayo, okuthi uma umuntu eligingqa, libuyele kuye ngobudlova obukhulu (Jeremy Taylor)
UJeremy Taylor wayebheka ukuziphindiselela komuntu siqu njengobulungisa.
32. Umuntu kufanele athuthukisele zonke izingxabano zabantu indlela enqabela ukuziphindiselela, ulaka, nokuziphindiselela (Martin L. King)
Isishoshovu esivelele samalungelo abantu abamnyama kwakungu a umvikeli wokuthula nentethelelo .
33. Ukubhala kahle kuyimpindiselo engcono kakhulu (Dorothy Parker)
Ikhambi elinelukuluku nelithokozisayo lodlame. Ukuziphindiselela kuza ngezindlela eziningi.
34. Ukuziphindisela isidlo esisetshenziswa kakhulu esibandayo (uStephen Fry)
Sonke siyayazi leyo nkulumo. Ngesikhathi sokushisa, akukho ukuziphindiselela.
35. Indoda ecabanga ukuziphindiselela ihlale ivulekile amanxeba (Francis Bacon)
KuFrancis Bacon, kwakungenangqondo ukucabanga ngokuxazulula ukungqubuzana ngokulimaza umhlaseli.
36. Ukuphindisela kuhlale kuyinjabulo ebuthakathaka yomqondo omncane futhi omncane (Juvenal)
Imbongi yenkathi yamaRoma yabhala ezincwadini zayo ukuthi ukuziphindiselela kwakusho ukuthini kuye.
37. Ukuphindisela akuhlali kumnandi, uma sekufeziwe sizizwa siphansi kunomuntu ohlukunyeziwe (Emile M. Cioran)
Umphumela wokuthatha ubulungiswa ngesandla awuhlali ulungile.
38. Ukuziphindiselela kuphela akudingi isijeziso (Pierre Corneille)
U-Pierre uyasimangaza futhi incazelo engajwayelekile yokuziphindiselela .
39. Impilo iyilokhu eyikho, umuntu uphupha ukuziphindiselela (Paul Gauguin)
KuPaul Gauguin, siphila ezweni elondla lo muzwa.
40. Inzondo ukuziphindiselela kwamagwala ngokuxhashazwa (George Bernard Shaw)
Ukuvezwa okuqinile kombhali wemidlalo yeshashalazi wase-Ireland nosopolitiki, ngokuqinisekile okuthonywe ukungezwani phakathi kweNgilandi ne-Ireland yesikhathi sakhe.
41. Ekuziphindiseleni umuntu ulingana nesitha sakhe, kodwa ekumnqobeni uphakeme (uFrancis Bacon)
Ukuziphindiselela kuhlanganisa yenza ngokwehlukile kunomhlaseli wakho , ngokusho kukaBacon.
42. Injabulo iyimpindiselo engcono kakhulu, bewazi? Jabula nje (Emily Griffin)
Ukuziba ukuziphindiselela kuzoletha inhlalakahle. Ukuwusebenzisa kuzoletha ukudabuka.
- Ungase ube nesithakazelo: "Izihluthulelo ezingu-10 zenjabulo, ngokusho kwesayensi"
43. Inkinga yokuziphindiselela ukuthi iyehluleka ukupholisa amanxeba owazwayo (Peter May)
Ngakho uPeter May uqinisekisa ukuthi akukho okuhle okungaphuma kulo muzwa.
44 Amadoda maningi amathuba okuthi abuyisele isikhalo kunomusa, ngoba ukubonga kuwumthwalo nokuziphindiselela kuyintokozo (Robert Greene)
URobert Greene unikeza umbono othakazelisayo wokuthi kungani ukuziphindiselela kuvame kangaka.
45. UNkulunkulu wabamhlophe uyala ubugebengu. Onkulunkulu bethu basicela impindiselo (Alejo Carpentier)
Umbhali waseCuba, wayenethonya elikhulu emzabalazweni wamazwe aseLatin America ngokumelene nokugxambukela kwaseNtshonalanga.
46. Abaningi abazibulalayo baqhutshwa intukuthelo nokuziphindiselela, hhayi nje ukudabuka (Patricia Cornwell)
Isisulu sokuqala sokuziphindiselela yilowo ofuna ukukuqeda.
47. Akunakwenzeka ukuhlupheka ngaphandle kokuthi umuntu akukhokhele; sonke isikhalazo sesivele siqukethe ukuziphindiselela (F. Nietzsche)
Lesi sazi sefilosofi sasinokungabaza kakhulu em relação ezindinganisweni zokuziphatha kwabantu.
48. Impindiselo engcono kakhulu iwukuba wehluke kulowo obangele umonakalo (Marcus Aurelius)
UKhesari usinikeza esinye iseluleko esihlakaniphile.
49. Ukuziphindiselela okungcono kakhulu kuyimpumelelo enkulu (uFrank Sinatra)
Umculi-umbhali wengoma, onomlando omubi, ubonisa ukuziphindiselela.
50. Impindiselo engcono kakhulu ukuphila futhi uzihlole (Eddie Vedder)
Owayengumdlali wesigingci wePearl Jam wasitshela ukuthi singakunqoba kanjani ukoma kokuziphindiselela.
51. Ukuphila kahle kuyimpindiselo engcono kakhulu (George Herbert)
Nalapha futhi, kunconywa elinye ikhambi lokucasuka, elisho ukuthi injabulo iyikhambi elingcono kakhulu.
52. Impumelelo iyimpindiselo engcono kakhulu (Kanye West)
Omunye umculi nombhali wengoma odumile owenqaba udlame ukuze axazulule ingxabano.
53. Ukuphindisela akukaze kube kuhle, kubulala umphefumulo kanye nobuthi (Gómez Bolaños)
Umlingisi nombhali waseMexico uveze imibono yakhe ngokuziphindiselela.
54. Wayezizwe eboshelwe kuye ngothando olwalimaza ubuze bakhe futhi lwalubonakala lufana nokuziphindiselela (uFyodor Dostoyevsky)
Lo noveli odumile kusukela ngesikhathi se-Tsarist Russia ngaleyo ndlela kubonakala ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene ukuziphindiselela.
55. Azisekho izinyembezi manje, ngizocabanga ukuziphindiselela (uMariya, iNdlovukazi yaseScots)
Ngakho, waveza imizwa yakhe ngesikhathi esidabukisayo ngomholi waseScotland.
56. Uma umuntu ezolinyazwa, kufanele kube kubi kangangokuthi ukuziphindiselela kwakhe akufanele kwesatshwe (Nicolás Machiavelli)
UNicolás Machiavelli waba nomthelela omkhulu endleleni yokwenza ezombangazwe.
57. Ngenkathi uzindla ngokuziphindiselela, udeveli uzindla ngomuntu obuthiwe (François de Malherbe)
Ukuziphindiselela kuyiseluleko sikadeveli, ngokusho kukaMalherbe.
58. Ngiqophe phakathi kwamagquma nokuziphindisela kwami othulini edwaleni (Edgar Allan Poe)
U-Edgar "umphefumulo ohlushwayo" uPoe waduma ngemisebenzi yakhe egcwele uthando nenzondo.
- Ungase ube nentshisekelo: ” imishwana engama-55 mayelana nokufa nangale kwalokho “
59. Ukudeda ekulingiseni ukuziphindiselela okungcono kakhulu (Marcus Aurelius)
Akumelwe senze njengoba benza ngokumelene nathi.
60. Uma ungondli lutho olunye, uzoziphindiselela (William Shakespeare)
Umbhali wemidlalo yeshashalazi wamaNgisi uchaza kanjalo ukuthi ucabangani ngokuziphindiselela.
61. Kukhona ukuziphindiselela okuncane ngamazwi, kodwa amagama angase abe ukuziphindiselela (uBenjamin Franklin)
Omunye wabasunguli be-United States of America kubonakala kanjalo ezinkumbulo zakhe . Isiko nobuhlakani yikhona ukuziphindiselela okungcono kakhulu.
62. Impindiselo isenhliziyweni yami, ukufa kusesandleni sami, igazi nempindiselo ishaya ekhanda lami (William Shakespeare)
Nakulokhu, uShakespeare usikhombisa isifiso sakhe sokuziphindiselela.
63. Ngizophindisela, kulempilo noma elandelayo (Comfortable)
Indodana kaMarcus Aurelius, yafunga ukuthi izophindisela ukufa kukayise okusolisayo.
64. Kuzofanele ngiziphindiselele ngendlela enonya ongayicabanga (uJohn Steinbeck)
Umbhali waseMelika uchaze imizwa yakhe kwenye yezincwadi zakhe: Amagilebhisi olaka .
65. Kunezidingo ezine eziyisisekelo zabantu: ukudla, ukulala, ucansi kanye nokuziphindiselela (Banksy)
Umculi waseBrithani ogqamile uveze ngale ndlela izidingo zemvelo zabantu, ezihlanganisa ukuziphindiselela.