Ubuqotho buyimfanelo ebalulekile kukho konke ukusebenzelana kwabantu, njengoba kuhilela ukubeka izinto obala, ukwethembeka, nobuqiniso. Kule ncwadi, sihlanganise izingcaphuno ezingu-98 ezinhle kakhulu ezikhuluma ngokubaluleka kobuqotho ezimweni ezehlukene, kusukela ebudlelwaneni bomuntu siqu kuya emsebenzini. Ingcaphuno ngayinye ibonisa ingqikithi yaleli gugu eliyisisekelo futhi isimema ukuba sizindle ngokubaluleka kokuba neqiniso emazwini nasezenzweni zethu. Khuthazwa yilawa mazwi futhi uvumele ubuqotho buqondise izinyathelo zakho eziya empilweni eyiqiniso nenenjongo.
Imishwana eqotho yokwabelana ngesimo sakho futhi ikhuthaze ukucabanga okuqotho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.
Ngezinye izikhathi, inkulumo elula neqotho ingenza umehluko omkhulu ezimpilweni zethu. Ukwabelana ngemicabango eqotho kungakhuthaza ukucabanga okujulile futhi kuvuse imizwa yangempela kubangani bethu nakubalandeli ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Ngakho-ke, sikhethe imishwana eqotho engu-98 engcono kakhulu ongabelana ngayo ngesimo sakho futhi ukhuthaze ukucabanga kwangempela.
" Ubuqotho buyindlela emfushane kakhulu eya ezinhliziyweni zabantu."
"Akukho lutho olubaluleke ngaphezu kobungane obuqotho ."
"Iqiniso lingase libuhlungu, kodwa ubuqotho buyakukhulula."
"Ezweni lokubonakala , yiba qotho ."
" Ubuhle beqiniso busebuqothweni benhliziyo ."
" Ukwethembeka kuwe ngokwakho kuyisinyathelo sokuqala enjabulweni."
"Amazwi aqotho anamandla okuguqula izimpilo ."
" Iqiniso lingalimaza, kodwa amanga ayabhubhisa."
" Uthando lweqiniso lukhona kuphela ngobuqotho bemizwa ."
" Ukwethembeka kuyisisekelo sanoma yiluphi ubudlelwano obunempilo."
Khetha umusho okuphefumulele kakhulu bese uwabelana ngobuqotho nabangani bakho nabalandeli bakho. Kwangathi la mazwi angathinta izinhliziyo futhi avuse ukucabanga okuqotho kuwo wonke umuntu owafundayo. Phela, ubuqotho bungenye yezimfanelo ezinhle kakhulu esingazihlakulela ekuphileni kwethu.
Imishwana ephefumulayo yokuhambisa abangani nomndeni wakho esimweni sakho senkundla yezokuxhumana.
Inkundla yezokuxhumana iyindlela enhle yokuveza imizwa nokuxhumana nabangani nomndeni. Enye indlela yokuthinta labo osondelene nawe kakhulu ukwabelana ngezingcaphuno ezisuka enhliziyweni nezihehayo ngesimo sakho. Nazi ezinye izingcaphuno ezinhle kakhulu ezisuka enhliziyweni ezizothinta inhliziyo yomuntu wonke:
“Impilo yenziwa izikhathi, futhi ngiyabonga ngokukwazi ukwabelana nawe eziningi kangaka.”
"Ayikho into ebaluleke ukwedlula ukuba khona kwabantu esibathandayo empilweni yethu. Ngiyabonga ngokuba yingxenye yohambo lwami."
"Ubuqotho buyisisekelo sanoma yibuphi ubuhlobo beqiniso. Sengathi singahlala sithembekile komunye nomunye."
"Ayikho into enhle njengobungani obuqotho nothando lweqiniso. Bazise abaseduze kwakho."
"Ezweni eligcwele ukubheka phezulu, ukuba yiqiniso kuyisenzo sesibindi. Yiba yiqiniso ngaso sonke isikhathi."
Yabelana ngale mishwana esimweni sakho futhi uthinte abangani bakho nomndeni wakho ngamagama asuka enhliziyweni nahehayo. Ukwethembeka kuyisipho esikhulu kunazo zonke esingasipha labo esibathandayo. Thatha ithuba lokubonisa lonke uthando lwakho nokwazisa kulabo abasempilweni yakho.
Imisho eveza ubuqotho futhi iveze ubuntu bangempela babantu.
Izingcaphuno ezingcono kakhulu zobuqotho yilezo ezembula isimilo sangempela somuntu. Uma umuntu ekhuluma ngokwethembeka nangokungafihli lutho, siyakwazi ukubona ukuthi ungubani ngempela. Nazi ezinye zezingcaphuno zobuqotho ezingu-98 eziveza lobu qiniso:
“Ubuqotho buyindlela eya ebunganini beqiniso.”
“Ukwethembeka kuyisipho esingcono kakhulu ongasipha umuntu.”
“Ubuqotho beqiniso busenhliziyweni, hhayi ngamazwi.”
"Amagama angaqamba amanga, kodwa izenzo zihlala ziveza inhloso yangempela."
“Ubuqotho buwulimi lwenhliziyo.”
"Uma umuntu ekhuluma ngobuqotho, akunakwenzeka ukuthi angaboni ingqikithi yakhe yangempela."
“Ubuqotho buyisisekelo sanoma ibuphi ubuhlobo obunempilo.”
"Lowo othembekile kuye akadingi ukuzenza kwabanye."
"Ubuqotho bungaba buhlungu, kodwa amanga ayabhubhisa."
“Ukwenza izinto obala kuyisihluthulelo sokwakha ukwethembana nenhlonipho.”
“Ubuqotho bangempela yisipho esiyivelakancane, okumelwe saziswe futhi sihlakulelwe.”
Lapho abantu bekhuluma ngokwethembeka, baveza isimilo sabo sangempela futhi babonise umhlaba ukuthi bangobani ngempela. Ukwethembeka nokungafihli izimfanelo ezitusekayo okufanele zihlakulelwe kuzo zonke izici zokuphila.
Imishwana emifushane eveza ubuqotho ngamagama afinyelela ku-15.
1. Thembeka kuwe ngaphambi kokufuna ukwethembeka kwabanye.
2. Iqiniso lingase libuhlungu, kodwa ubuqotho buhlala bukhulula.
3. Ubuqotho kuphela obungakha ubudlelwano beqiniso nobuhlala njalo .
4. Ubuqotho buyisisekelo sanoma yikuphi ukuxhumana okuphumelelayo nokunenjongo .
5. Ungesabi ukuba qotho ; iqiniso lihlala linqoba ekugcineni.
6. Ubuqotho buwukubonakaliswa kobuqotho bomuntu .
7. Ubuqotho buyisihluthulelo sokwakha ukwethembana nokuhloniphana.
Imishwana engu-98 engcono kakhulu yobuqotho
Nginishiya nezingcaphuno ezinhle kakhulu ngobuqotho ezivela kubabhali abakhulu abafana noWalt Whitman, uLao Tzu, u-Aristotle, uRalph Waldo Emerson, u-Oscar Wilde, uConfucius, u-Albert Camus, nabanye abaningi.
Ungase futhi ube nentshisekelo kule mishwana yokwethembeka noma yokwethemba.
-Ubuqotho buyisipho esibiza kakhulu. Ungalindeli kubantu abashibhile. UWarren Buffett.
N Lapho ubuqotho obumsulwa buzalwa futhi butholakala kumuntu, bubonakala ezinhliziyweni zabanye. – Lao Tzu.
-Ubuqotho akusho konke okucabangayo, kodwa ukuzwa konke okushoyo. Rick Godwin.
Ubuqotho neqiniso yizisekelo zabo bonke ubuhle. I-Confucius.
-Ulimi lwabaqotho luphuma enhliziyweni. Ubuzenzisi nokukhohlisa akunandawo emazwini abo. URobert Dodsley.
N Uzokwazi ukukhuluma kahle uma ulimi lwakho lungadlulisa umyalezo wenhliziyo yakho. John Ford.
Ubuqotho bungase buthobeke, kodwa abukwazi ukuba yisigqila. UMnu. Byron.
Lapho kukhona ubuqotho obukhulu kakhulu, kuhlala ukuthobeka okukhulu kakhulu; futhi lapho kuneqiniso elincane khona, kukhona ukuziqhenya okukhulu kakhulu. -Asen Nicholson.
Ubuqotho benza umuntu ongacabangeli kakhulu abaluleke ngaphezu komzenzisi onekhono. UCharles Spurgeon.
Gcina ukwethembeka nobuqotho njengezimiso zokuqala. I-Confucius.
Ubuqotho buyindlela eya ezulwini. I-Confucius.
-Enye indlela yokuthola idumela elihle ukuba yilokhu ofisa ukuba yikho. – Socrates.
Imfihlo yempumelelo ubuqotho. UJean Giraudoux.
-Abantu ababuthakathaka abakwazi ukwethembeka. - UFrançois de La Rochefoucauld.
Alukho uthando oludlulisa ubuqotho bokwahlulela njengentukuthelo. - UMichel de Montaigne.
Ubuqotho bunikeza amaphiko emandleni. Isaga sesiLatini.
-Ubuqotho obuncane buyinto eyingozi, kodwa ubuqotho obukhulu bungaba yingozi kakhulu. Oscar Wilde.
-Ubuqotho buyindlela eya epharadesi. -Mencio.
-Izenzo eziqotho zimema abangani abasha. -Toba Beta.
Naphezu kwenhlonipho engingaba nayo ngokwethembeka nobuqotho bomuntu onjalo, anginalo ukholo oluphelele kunoma ubani. Mikhail Bakunin.
- Izimfanelo ezinhle zobuntu, ukwethembeka, ubuqotho, nenhliziyo enhle akukwazi ukuthengwa ngemali noma ukukhiqizwa ngemishini, kodwa ngomqondo womuntu. – Dalai Lama.
- Ubuhle obuthathu buyadingeka ukuze uphumelele kweqiniso: ukuzithiba, ukuthula, ukuhleleka, ukuxazulula, ukonga, ukukhuthala, ubuqotho, ubulungisa, ukulinganisela, inhlanzeko, ukuthula, ubumsulwa, nokuthobeka. Benjamin Franklin.
Iqiniso nokwethembeka kuyizinsika zethempeli lomhlaba. Lapho ziphuka, isakhiwo sawo siyabhidlika futhi sibhidlike sibe yizicucu. – Owen Feltham.
N Ubuqotho bungaba kanjani isimo sobungani? Ukunambitheka kweqiniso nganoma iyiphi intengo kuwukushisekela okungagodli lutho. Albert Camus.
-Ukuze unikeze isevisi yeqiniso, kufanele wengeze okuthile okungenakulinganiswa noma ukuthengwa ngemali: ubuqotho nobuqotho. Douglas Adams.
Ubuqotho abuyithathi indawo yeqiniso. UJimmy Pritchard.
Ubuqotho kwandisa ukuzimisela kwethu ukukhathalela izinto. -Toba Beta.
-Uma ngikhuluma iqiniso, angikutholi ubuqotho bucasula. UChristopher Meloni.
Ubuqotho buwubuso bomphefumulo. – Sanial-Dubay
Ubuqotho akulona uvivinyo lweqiniso. Kungenzeka ukuthi unephutha ngobuqotho. Singahlulela iqiniso kuphela ngeqiniso nangobuqotho ngobuqotho. UJim Rohn.
Thembeka ngokuncoma kwakho. Abantu abaningi bayawazi umehluko phakathi koshukela ne-saccharin. -EC McKenzie.
Umuntu oguquguquka kakhulu akanakuba qotho kakhulu, ngoba iqiniso lanamuhla liba amanga akusasa. – Madame Swetchine.
Umuntu ukhululekile ngokokuziphatha lapho, ephethe ubuntu bakhe ngokugcwele, ahlulela izwe namanye amadoda ngobuqotho obuqotho. George Santayana.
Ubuqotho bufana nokuhamba endleleni eshelelayo, ephukile, ngokuvamile eholela indoda ekupheleni kohambo lwayo. Okunye okukhethwa kukho yizindlela amadoda avame ukulahlekelwa indlela yawo. John Tillotson.
Angikholwa ukuthi noma ubani owamukele ubuqotho, isisa, nesizotha ngokweqiniso angakwazi ukungabekezeleli noma ahlukanise. UJulian Baggi.
Ubuqotho buhlobene nokuhlobana phakathi kwamazwi ethu nemicabango yethu, kodwa hhayi phakathi kwezinkolelo zethu nezenzo zethu. UWilliam Hazlitt.
-Phila impilo eqotho, yiba ngokwemvelo futhi uthembeke kuwena. -Baba Mahle.
-Ubuzenzisi buhlala bubuthakathaka; ubuqotho, ngisho nasephutheni, bunamandla. UGeorge Henry Lewes.
-Uma ufuna ukutshela abantu iqiniso, bahleke, kungenjalo bazokubulala. Oscar Wilde.
Labo abakhuluma ngokusuka enhliziyweni benza umehluko omkhulu ezimpilweni zabanye ngokukhuluma kwabo okuyiqiniso, okujulile, nokuqotho. –Miya Yamanouchi.
Isifiso sokuzikhulumela nokubonisa lawo maphutha esingenandaba nawo uma besibona, sakha ingxenye enkulu yobuqotho bethu. - UFrançois de La Rochefoucauld.
-Umngane omuhle uyohlale ekugwaza ebusweni. Oscar Wilde.
Ubuqotho abugcini nje ngokuphumelela futhi buhloniphekile, kodwa futhi bunzima kakhulu kunalokho umuntu angase akucabange. UGeorge Henry Lewes.
-Umuntu oqotho unomsebenzi olula emhlabeni, ngoba amazwi noma izenzo zakhe azimfaki inkinga. -J. E-Beaumont
N Ayikho intokozo edlula ukuqaphela ubuqotho ekuzihloleni. -Mencio.
Wonke umuntu wesilisa yedwa uqotho. Uma kungena umuntu wesibili, ubuzenzisi buqala. – URalph Waldo Emerson.
-Ubuqotho akusho lutho. Umuntu angaba qotho futhi aqhubeke ebhubhisa kakhulu kunomuntu ongaqotho. Edward Albee.
-Umbono wami omkhulu we-panacea, ukufeza ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuthi umphakathi uba ngcono futhi ube mnandi, kungaba ukuhlakulela ubuqotho obukhulu. -UFrances Power Cobbe.
-Isidingo sokuqala esikhulu ubuqotho obuphelele. Amanga nenkohliso iyinhlupheko futhi idala usizi. - USamuel Taylor Coleridge.
-Asikho isidingo sokungesabi. Thembeka. -UDanielle LaPorte.
Amadoda amakhulu alwa nezinto ezinciphisa ubukhulu bawo, ngamanye amazwi, inkululeko yawo nobuqotho. - UFriedrich Nietzsche.
-Ubuqotho nokuncintisana kuyinhlanganisela enamandla. Kwezombusazwe, iyikho konke. -Peggy Noonan.
Ngenxa yokuthi kungokwemvelo futhi kuqotho, umuntu ngokuvamile angadala izinguquko ngaphandle kokuzifuna. UChristian Dior.
Isici esibalulekile sikazibuthe womuntu siqu siwubuqotho obunamandla, ukholo olunamandla ngokubaluleka komsebenzi owenziwayo. UBruce Barton.
Ubuqotho ngumama weqiniso. -Oliver Goldsmith.
-Ubuqotho obujulile, obukhulu, nobuqotho bungenye yezimpawu zokuqala ezibonwa kuwo wonke amadoda angamaqhawe nganoma iyiphi indlela. – Thomas Carlyle.
Ubuqotho, ngisho noma ungingiza, buzobonakala buqephuza uma buphefumulelwe. – Eiji Yosikawa.
-Ubuqotho buhlala buhambisana nobufakazi. John F. Kennedy.
-Uma ngiqotho namuhla, kunani uma ngizisola kusasa? – UJosé Saramago.
-Uma sithandana, into engokwemvelo okumele siyenze ukuzinikela kulo. Yilokho engikucabangayo. Kuwuhlobo nje lobuqotho. – Haruki Murakami.
-Ukuze wenze impilo yakho ibe yingcweti, yiklame ngobuqotho nangothando. – Debasish Mridha.
– Ubuqotho akuyona imbali ezenzakalelayo, futhi akuyona isizotha. – Ukuqoqwa.
-Imvelaphi ingukuzimela, hhayi ukuvukela; Kuwubuqotho, hhayi ukuphikisa. UGeorge Henry Lewes.
N Amazwi abantu abaqotho athinta inhliziyo futhi alethe ukumamatheka. -Toba Beta.
-Labo abathuka inhlamba iningi labo abaqotho kancane. – URichard Brinsley Sheridan.
"Ubuqotho yindlela okumele siyilandele ukuze sibe nempilo engcono. Ubuqotho yisimo okumele sibe naso uma sifuna ukusinda." - Lisa Stansfield.
– Ngokombono wami, akunandaba ukuthi yini oyikholelwayo, inqobo nje uma uthembekile. Charles M. Schulz.
∎ Nakuba singakuthembi ubuqotho balabo esikhuluma nabo, sisacabanga ukuthi basitshela amaqiniso amaningi kunanoma ubani omunye. - UFrançois de La Rochefoucauld.
– Ukube wonke umuntu othi uthembekile ubeneqiniso ngempela, bekungeke kube nengxenye yabazenzisi emhlabeni. - Tennessee Williams.
N Lapho sibonisa ukubonga kwethu, akufanele nanini sikhohlwe ukuthi ukwazisa okukhulu kakhulu akukhona nje ngamazwi, kodwa okushoyo. John F. Kennedy.
Ukulahlekelwa ubuqotho ukulahlekelwa amandla abalulekile. - UChristian Nestell Bovee.
Ukwethembeka kungase kungasisizi ukuba sibe abangane, kodwa kungase kusisize sihlale singabangane. - UJohn Wooden
-Kumele sibone sijule kumzenzisi ukuze sibone ubuqotho bakhe. – Thomas Fuller.
∎ Uma unezimfanelo ezinjengomusa, uzwelo, ubuqotho, kanye neqiniso enhliziyweni yakho, uyohlala uthola indlela yakho yokubuyela ekhaya. -Rita Zahara.
N Izingane ziya lapho zithola khona ubuqotho nobuqiniso. U-Eric Cantona.
∎ Uma ulwazi nokubona izinto kusengaphambili kungena futhi kujulile, kuhlanganise ngobulula nobuqotho. – Xun Kuang.
Lapho umphefumulo uqotho, isiphambano sawo siyoba nzima kakhulu. -Aberjhani.
-Anginalo iqiniso, ngisho noma ngithi angiyena. -Jules Renard.
Ukwethembeka kuwukuba nguwe, kodwa ukwenza umsebenzi omuhle ngempela ngakho. -UBryce Sanders.
-Ubuqotho busho lokho esikushoyo, ukwenza lokho esikuhlosile nesikushoyo, nokwenza futhi senza kahle njengoba sethembisile, ngaphandle kwalokho empeleni yilokho esibonakala siyikho. John Tillotson.
– Okuqotho akulona iqiniso ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngokuphambene, iphutha livame ukuba qotho kuneqiniso. - Benjamin Disraeli.
Lowo ovuleleke ngokuphelele angathethelelwa zonke iziphambeko zakhe. - UWalt Whitman.
Ukufaneleka kokuvela kwakho akukona okusha, ubuqotho. – Thomas Carlyle.
-Ubuqotho yikho konke okubalulekile. Lokhu kuwukuhlubuka kwesimanje okuphethwe kabanzi. Cabanga futhi. AmaBolshevik ayeqotho. Ama-fascists ayeqotho. Amahlanya aqotho. Abantu abacabanga ukuthi umhlaba uyisicaba baqotho. Angeke balunge bonke. UTom Driberg.
- Ngingashintsha ikhwalithi yobuqotho ngobuqotho, ngoba umuntu angaqiniseka ngobuqotho ngaphandle kokukuhlolisisa, kuyilapho ukwethembeka kudinga ukuthi umuntu ahlole izinkolelo zakhe njalo. UChristopher Phillips.
Lapho umuntu eqotho, kokubili enkulumweni yakhe nasekuziphatheni kwakhe, lobu buqotho bungase bubhekwe njengobuhle bokuziphatha, ngoba umthandi weqiniso uneqiniso ngisho nalapho kungekho lutho oluncike kulo. Aristotle.
Ubuqotho wukuvuleka kwenhliziyo, futhi sikuthola kubantu abambalwa kakhulu. Esivame ukukuthola ukucasha ukuze sizuze ukwethenjwa abanye. - UFrançois de La Rochefoucauld.
N Ukwenza izinto ezinhlanu ngaphansi kwazo zonke izimo kusho ubuhle obuphelele. Lezi zinto ezinhlanu ubuqotho, ukuphana komphefumulo, ubuqotho, ukuvuleleka, kanye nomusa. I-Confucius.
Ubuqotho nokusebenzelana okuqotho kuqhubekisela phambili izithakazelo zesintu, ngoba kunikeza isisekelo sokwethenjwa kanye nokulindelwe okuphusile okubalulekile ebukhoneni bokuhlakanipha nobuhle. –W. Godwin